Western Dressage

Rusty and I are back at it with the Western Dressage. Our first virtual show is done and over. Reading through the comments on our test was a test of my pride verses humility, willingness to learn and improve.
Shoulders dropped, bend not clear, strung out. It can be hard to read the critiques.
Not that it was all bad or that there wasn’t good in there too. Forward and balanced, nice lengthening, softness and relaxation shown. Those were more fun to read. The comments are always to the point, well thought out, and really quite fun to read.
Clinging to either the good or the bad completely wont do us any good though. They both need to be taken into consideration and worked on as a whole.
I could offer up all sorts of excuses for the bad. It was icy and slick, Rusty had hardly been ridden (and who’s fault is that?) but they don’t change anything. We need to keep at it and work to get better.
That is the fun part!
Once upon a time, long long ago, I knew a lady. She had recently broken her arm badly in a riding accident. The scars from surgery showed clearly down the length of her arm as I talked to her that day. Her husband was recovering from a heart attack brought on by a horse he was riding rearing up and going over backwards on him. He was lucky to be alive, saved by a life flight to Denver.
I was on my way to a riding lesson. We were lucky to have a trainer of that quality willing to make the drive down to our little town to give lessons all day. It was exciting and I couldn’t wait.
I told this lady about it as we made the usual horse talk. She should get signed up for the next time and get some lessons too! It was so much fun and an opportunity not to be missed.
I’ll never forget the look she gave me. I had offended her dreadfully.
I thought SHE needed riding lessons!? (her actual words) How dare I imply that she didn’t know how to ride.
Had I invited her to the lessons because I thought she didn’t know how to ride?
To be honest, I had, at least partially. She, and her husband, and children were likely to get killed at the rate they were going.
That wasn’t all of it though. I hadn’t meant to insult her. I was off to take lessons too. I wasn’t saying in anyway that I was better than her. All the good riders I knew were taking advantage of the chance at lessons.
Because of her pride she missed out on a wonderful learning opportunity. Without humility we lose the chance to improve. It can be hard swallowing our pride and admitting that we make mistakes, that we are human, that we might not be perfect.
I am doing my best not to follow in her footsteps.
We made mistakes, fairly big ones, on our test. Instead of getting upset and embarrassed about our mistakes, or offended that anyone would think we weren’t perfect, I am going to try  to accept them, take note of them, and remember them  to work on for next time.
That’s the fun of competing, finding out what needs work and where we can improve for next time!

Seeking To Learn

“The moment you say “yeah, but, ” is the moment that you don’t want my honest opinion. You want me to say what you want to hear.” Quoting Denny Emerson, quoting Mike Page.
It doesn’t matter who said it and it’s not the first time anyone has said it.
It is such a painfully true statement. I know I’ve said it when people are saying something that I don’t want to hear. We all have a list of excuses as to why we can’t, why our horse isn’t.
Truth hurts and learning is painful. Even when we want to learn it is still hard to hear that we have been wrong and being humble enough to accept the shear multitude of things we don’t know is nearly impossible.
As they also say, the more you know the more you know you don’t know. And the less you know the more confident you are in your knowledge.
Go. Seek. Learn. Keep an open mind, just because something is different doesn’t mean it is wrong. I will strive to do the same.

Groundwork

Improving ridden work with ground work.

It’s muddy and icy and I don’t have enough time to ride anyway.

Not a problem.

Spending just a few minutes on the one tiny patch of dry ground, we can work on our roll back skill and build a bit of muscle. Cow work, reining, western dressage, there are few things that don’t benefit from a good roll back. This is our first time working on it this way. Looks like it could be a great exercise though!


The Dark Side Of Positive Reinforcement

Nobody ever tells you about the dark side of positive reinforcement.

We hear all about how our horses will behave better and be happier doing so. About how willing it will make them, how they will want to work with you, about how you will be able to accomplish things you never dreamed possible in half the time. That’s all well and good but with every good thing there has to be a draw back. Doesn’t there?

There is and it’s a big one.

What happens those times when you have to work one horse and another one is left standing at the gate, alone, unloved, abandoned. Standing there calling out, pleading for some attention. Why, oh why would you do this to him. How could you leave him there in an agonized fit of jealousy and longing. Why wont you work him too?

The pain of trying to work one horse while another stands staring over the gate accusingly. He knows what you are doing. He knows that other horse is getting to work and receiving treats. The feel of eyes boring into your back as you try to concentrate is unbearable. The guilt crushing.

Then comes time to put them away. To force them back out into the pasture with their friends and free choice hay.

Not only do you have to drag the horse who has just finished working through the gate, you also have to fight your way through horses wanting to come out and work while pulling along the horse who doesn’t want to go back.

Allow them to chose when they want to work, say the positive reinforcement trainers. You’ll get more from them if you give them choice, they say. That will never work in real life! I’d never be able to do anything but work with my horses! Not that I would mind that so much but children seem to think I should pay attention to them once in awhile and everyone expects to be fed. Then there’s that silly housework stuff, nothing I want to be doing anyway. Sometimes we just have to make horses do as we say.

There comes a time when I just have to put a halter on. There’s nothing else for it.

Go ahead an buy into this positive reinforcement stuff if you will but always remember there is a dark side to the positive side.

 


Snow Stories

It’s still snowing today. The second day of it. Not a blizzard, not for us at least. A decent amount of snow and we can hear the wind howling out there from here behind the safety and protection  of the wind break.

It was time for the kids to get outside.

We went out tromping through the high snow drifts, up to their waists,  and I decided it was story time. They needed to know what to do just in case. It’s one of my favorite stories so I thought I would tell it here too.

Long ago in a land far away, a little over ten years ago and about an hour west, I was working on a ranch. It was high empty country, beautiful and desolate. Nothing to break the wind clear to the Wyoming border. Deep draws where you could look down on the bald eagles nesting high in  the cotton wood trees. Not a drop of water and soil that would only grow good Buffalo grass. Ranch country.

The bad drought of 2006 and ’07 was just breaking, and doing it dramatically. There had been a few grass fires already that spring before the blizzards set in. Nothing was going to burn for a long time after it started snowing. Three weeks in a row, three blizzards to bury the pastures and leave the cows tired and cold. Calving was not going well.

The third blizzard was the worst. The snow a fine mist that got into your lungs making it nearly impossible to breath. It blew through the smallest cracks, filling the barns where we tried to find shelter for the smallest of the calves. The bigger of the calves were tucked away as good as could be up one of the deep draws, lots of hay and as much windbreak as could be found. It was a good place, if they would stay put.

The cows stayed pretty good. They knew better than to wander into the wind. The calves weren’t so smart.

Braving the storm every couple of hours to check them found a calf that had drifted down the draw to where it became shallow as it opened up to the flat open grassland. He was still down in the dry creek bottom but no  longer sheltered at all. Back hunched he stood cold and still, the thought of turning back into that wind to get back to his mom never crossing his mind.

He would need put back.

Leaving the warmth and shelter of the pickup, the wind struck like a whip. Sucking the wind from my lungs and impossible to breath without filling my lungs with snow. Pulling my scarf over my face I made my way down to the calf. He took off. I followed up the other side of the shallow draw following a path trampled firm across an old snow bank. Until he turned.

Once off the old path he was on new snow, light and fluffy. He fell in like if he had stepped onto a lake. Not spending a lot of time thinking at that moment I followed him. As soon as I stepped off the old beaten path I fell in too. Up to my armpits in soft fluffy snow. I was stuck. For a moment I thought I would die there. The soft snow I was in combined with the whirling blowing snow filling my lungs. Drowning on dry ground, I couldn’t breath.

Fighting the panic I got a hold of my scarf and pulled it back over my mouth and drew some grateful breaths. The calf and I sat there eye to eye. Stuck.

I tried to climb out. The calf climbed on top of me. We both sank again. Still stuck. Looking into that calves eyes I thought.

My dad had told us lots of stories growing up of his life running wild along the Platte and Missouri Rivers when he was a child. Quick sand was a constant threat. Never fight it he had always said. If you get in quicksand, swim. Fighting will suck you deeper if you go with it and quietly swim you can swim out like it was water. This snow was the closest I had ever seen to quick sand. No harm in trying. Turning down hill, back towards the blown bare dirt of the draw I pretended it was water and swam. On my belly I didn’t sink, the weight was spread out enough that the snow could hold me. Crawling along I was able to move and slowly but surely made my way to the bottom and firm ground.

The calf had decided I was his friend by then. Amazing how facing life threatening difficulties will bring two strangers together that way 😉 He followed me through that snow. My weight compressed the snow enough that he was able to walk behind me. Stepping on my legs all the way. The calf had decided I was mom and was glued to my side. He followed me as I walked him back up the draw to the rest of the herd. I go to walk with the wind at least beck down to the pickup and back to the house where I was able to warm up for  little bit. Until it was time to go back out again.

 

 


Show Not Tell

Rusty already knows how to play basket ball. He and I in this video are old news and not the interesting part.

What’s going on in the background is very interesting though.

The children kept interrupting our work to ask for more cookies. As I played with Rusty I could hear them talking behind me. They are both in gymnastics and my daughter was carefully coaching her brother in the right way to work on the balance beam, eyes up, look straight ahead. She was giving him a great lesson. Each success rewarded with a horse cookie. Positive reinforcement at work in play.

They both watch me work with the horses and are both rewarded for good behavior, kindness as well as doing what is asked of them. They seldom work the horses with me and have never been coached through lessons in the how and why of it all.

They learned by watching, it is what they see around them all the time and what seems normal to them. In play they learn how to implement it, by experimenting, by doing.

As we go about our lives in the regular horse world, the world in general, we need to remember that. Nobody is convinced about anything by arguments or facts shoved down their throats. If people are convinced that feeding horses treats is going to teach the horse to bite, no one is going to change their minds by telling them otherwise. If someone says horses can not be trained with food even though your well trained horse is standing in front of them as evidence, facts and arguing isn’t going to change their mind.

Whether it is horses, politics, or any of the myriad other topics people love to argue about in this crazy world, NO ONE has ever changed their mind because someone argued with them. Facts are believed, or not, as they fall into a persons belief system.

Instead be the change you want to see. If you believe positive reinforcement works get out there and prove it. Quietly. Be great. Or mediocre. Be happy with your horse and show the world a horse who is happy to be with you. Be out there so people can see, over and over again, that there are other options. Repetition normalizes, for better or worse. The more we see something the more our brains accept that it must be true. Let the things people see be the good things, kindness and love. For people and animals. Those who are willing to look at options will. The ones who aren’t interested wouldn’t be anyway.


Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas from all of us here at Rescuing Rusty. I think we got most of us in this video.
We’ve had a wonderful year here. The children are happy and healthy. The horses are fat and love to play. My husband puts up with me, the horses, and our antics rather happily for the most part and doesn’t complain when I chose horse work over house work. Daisy is still the best dog anyone could hope for even as she starts to grey and slow down a bit. Kitty is fat and furry and still brings us presents regularly.
May next year be almost as good and I hope to keep seeing all of you here regularly!
Merry Christmas!

 


Horse Cookies

I’ve been having way too much fun dressing the horses up for Christmas this year. As I went back through the videos I happened to stumble across this lovely little bit.
The kids love the apple cinnamon flavored horse cookies. I have to carry some even if I’m not feeding them. To horses that is.
This was too cute not to share 🤣💝🎄

 



Two Step ‘Round The Christmas Tree

One of my favorite Christmas songs. The season isn’t complete until I’ve heard it a few times, so the horses and I decided to get out and dance to it! 💃🐴🎄

Two Step ‘Round The Christmas Tree by Suzy Bogguss
Staring, in order of appearance, Harvey, Rusty, and Heildorf, seven year old Morgan geldings.